What to write in a wedding thank you card

It can be tough knowing exactly what to say in wedding thank you cards. If you’re looking for some help penning the perfect wedding thank you card messages, you’ve come to the right place.

We’ve put together a helpful guide on what to write in a wedding thank you card for your guests, as well as for the members of your wedding party. Our guide also includes tips on when to send the cards, and how to send them too.

When should you send a wedding thank you card?

There’s no right or wrong answer, but it’s generally suggested that thank you cards be sent some time in the three months following your wedding, while memories of the day are still fresh in everyone’s minds.

By all means, you can write and send their thank you cards as soon as you’ve opened your gifts, or as soon as your wedding is over. However, if you’re rushing away on your honeymoon first, it’s perfectly fine to leave it until you get back.

Wedding thank you card etiquette

Wondering what the etiquette is for sending wedding thank you cards? We have some top tips designed to steer you clear of any unintentional faux pas! Here are some helpful suggestions…

DO ensure all names are included 

If you received a wedding gift from a couple - or on behalf of a whole family - be sure to mention each of them by name.

DO hand write the notes 

Handwritten thank yous often feel more heartfelt and personal. Pen your wedding thank you messages by hand for an extra-special touch.

DO include specific details where possible 

Mention their gift specifically. For example, have you used it yet? If you have, tell them about it and compliment them on their choice of wedding present.

DON’T mention specific monetary values 

Some people prefer not to talk specifically about money in detail. We suggest simply thanking them for their generosity.

Tips for writing wedding thank you cards

Alongside planning what you’re going to write in your wedding thank you cards, there are a few other ways you can get organised, and make the whole process much simpler and stress-free. Such as:

Ensure you have an up-to-date address book at hand 

If you sent your wedding invitations in the post, you may have all of the addresses you need, but it’s always worth checking!

Purchase your thank you cards in advance 

Stock up on the right amount of wedding thank you cards in plenty of time to avoid any risk of having to run around and find some at the very last minute.

Work through a list together 

Together with your new spouse, draft up a list of everyone you need to thank - or, even better, write everyone down in your wedding spreadsheet. After all, two heads are better than one.

Wedding thank you card wording

Here are some examples of general wedding thank you card messages you can use as inspiration. These messages can be customised in any way you like to suit the person you’re sending the card to.

• “Thank you so much for celebrating our special day with us. You’ve helped to make our wedding unforgettable.”
• “We are deeply grateful for your love and support. Thank you for being a part of our wedding day.”
• “Your kind words and warm wishes mean the world to us. Thank you for sharing in the joy of our wedding.”
• "Thank you for being a part of our wedding day. We are so appreciative of your love and support.”
• “We feel so blessed to have friends and family like you. Thank you for celebrating our wedding with us.”

Thank you for attending our wedding messages

The following messages are perfect for writing inside wedding thank you cards for guests who attended your wedding, regardless of whether they were in your wedding party.

• “Thank you so much for attending our wedding. Your presence made our day incredibly special. We hope it was special for you, too.”
• “We are so grateful you could join us on our wedding day. You being there meant the world to ys and you added so much joy to the celebration.”
• “Thank you for being there to share in the joy of our wedding. Your presence was a cherished gift we will truly remember.”
• “Having you there on our wedding day meant the world to us. Thank you for celebrating with us and for joining us on the best day of our lives.”
• “Your attendance at our wedding brought us so much joy. Thank you for helping to make our special day even more memorable.”

Thank you for the gift messages for wedding cards 

Whether they surprised you with a classic like a brand-new toaster or something more unusual, these wedding thank you messages are ideal for letting them know how grateful you are.

• “Thank you so much for your generous gift. Your thoughtfulness and support mean the world to us.”
• “We are truly grateful for your beautiful gift. Your kindness is deeply appreciated.”
• “Your presence at our wedding was a gift in itself, and your additional gift was especially thoughtful. Thank you so much.”
• “Thank you for celebrating our wedding with us, and for your wonderful gift. We are so grateful for your kindness and support.”
• “We were thrilled to have you at our wedding, and your gift was so thoughtful. Thank you for being part of our special day.”

Thank you for the gift of money messages

Thank them for their generous donation to your honeymoon fund with these heartfelt wedding thank you notes for people who have gifted you money on the happiest day of your life.

• “Thank you so much for attending our wedding and for your generous monetary gift. It truly does mean the world to both of us.”
• “We are deeply grateful for your thoughtful monetary gift. It’s appreciated more than you know. Thank you for celebrating with us.”
• “Thank you for your support, kindness and generous donation! We’re so grateful for your contribution.”
• “So grateful for your attendance as well as your generous financial gift - your thoughtfulness is something we’ll remember forever!”
• “We were delighted to have you at our wedding, and your monetary gift was very much appreciated. Thank you for everything.”

Thank you messages for those who gave gifts but could not attend the wedding

Here’s a little inspiration on what to include in a wedding thank you card for those who couldn’t make it to your wedding but still gave you a special gift or money.

• “Thank you so much for your thoughtful wedding gift. We missed you at the wedding but felt your love and support.”
• “Although you couldn’t be with us on our special day, your generous gift was deeply appreciated. Thank you for thinking of us and sharing in our joy.”
• “We are so grateful for the beautiful wedding gift. Your presence was missed but your generosity was truly felt on our special day.”
• “Thank you for your lovely gift. We wish you could have been there to celebrate with us, but your kindness means so much.”
• “Your thoughtful wedding gift was a wonderful surprise. We missed having you there at our wedding, but we’re so thankful for your love and support regardless.”

Thank you messages to the bridesmaids and groomsmen

Below are some useful examples of what to write in a bridesmaid thank you card, what to write in a maid of honour thank you card, and messages for groomsman thank you cards as well.

• "Thank you for standing by our side on our wedding day and for all the help and support leading up to it. We couldn't have done it without you."
• "Your support, friendship, and hard work made our wedding day incredible. Thank you for being there for us every step of the way."
• "We are so thankful for your love, support, and presence on our wedding day. You made it even more special and memorable."
• "Thank you for being an essential part of our wedding. Your efforts, encouragement, and love helped make our day truly amazing."
• "Your support and dedication as part of our wedding party were invaluable. Thank you for helping to make our wedding day everything we dreamed it would be."

Wedding thank you messages to parents

Say thank you to your parent or parents, and to your in-laws as well with these meaningful messages. These thank you messages are perfect for acknowledging all their support and encouragement.

• "Thank you for your unwavering love and support, not just on our wedding day, but throughout our lives. Your guidance and encouragement made this special day possible."
• "We are so grateful for everything you've done to help us prepare for our wedding. Your love, support, and generosity mean more to us than words can express."
• "Thank you for making our wedding day so special. Your love, support, and all the hard work you put in to help us made our day unforgettable."
• "Your presence, love, and support on our wedding day meant the world to us. Thank you for being there and for everything you've done to make our day perfect."
• "We are incredibly grateful for your love, support, and guidance. Your contributions to our wedding day and our lives have been immeasurable. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts."

Now you’re ready to write the perfect wedding thank you card 

We hope you found all of our suggestions helpful! Have fun sending all of your wedding thank you cards.

If you’re still looking for the perfect wedding thank you card designs, don’t forget that we have plenty to choose from - including photo-upload wedding thank you cards, and more traditional thank you card designs to choose from too.

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